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Building On Your Experience: Why Intermediate Play Matters

  If you’re getting into anal play with a partner, you should start with the beginner level. This is where you’ve established a fruitful and enjoyable foundation with a playmate.   You might have used objects or had penetrative sex.   This is discussed in the previous article in this series, “How to Master the Art of Anal Play: Beginner’s Tips.”(Let’s assume you’ve read that article and implemented the techniques mentioned.)   While not everyone will want to move from the beginning anal stage to the intermediate one, many individuals will.   This can enrich the sexual experience, provided you and your partner are on the same page with your wishes and keep communicating clearly.   If continuing down the path of anal play interests you, you’re in good company. Recent studies indicate that over a third of American women have tried anal sex with a male partner.  

Understanding Your Body at the Intermediate Level: Evolving Anal Anatomy and Sensitivity

  Understanding the anal anatomy is crucial if you’re getting into the intermediate stages of anal play.   The rectal mucosa lining is where the large intestine’s tissue lining changes from mucosa to skin. Here is where the innervation can be found. It primarily features autonomic nerves. This area is sensitive to distention and stretching.   The perineum is also important when engaging in anal play. It’s the sensitive skin area between the anus and genitals. It’s rich in nerve endings and can play a role in sexual response and arousal.   If you want to know the difference between beginner and intermediate anal play, it can often be characterized by moving from toys or nonpenetrative play to intercourse between two partners.   If you’re sticking with objects, it could mean moving to medium-sized from smaller ones.   Sensitivity in this part of the body can grow over time. In other words, it’s entirely possible for someone who was not enthusiastic about anal play to become more aroused by it through repeated sessions.    

Anal Anatomy at the Intermediate Level: Exploring New Sensitivity Points

  One’s perception of sensitivity can also change. While a certain touch or pressure point can be stimulating at first, it may grow to be outright pleasurable as time goes on.   There are additional erogenous areas you might explore with a partner as time passes. For instance, if you’re having intercourse, activating the pelvic floor might enhance your pleasure, while also giving you more precise control.   The anal sphincter, which regulates your anus’s opening and closing, can voluntarily and involuntarily control your anal opening. This both helps with control and can heighten the feeling of sensitivity.  

Mental and Physical Preparation: Getting Ready for Advanced Exploration

  For many individuals who engage in anal play, there can be a sense they’re doing something naughty or forbidden.   While that can be sexually exciting, there are also some psychological blocks that must be dealt with if someone is going to embrace anal play or full penetration.   Accepting new limits and challenges in the arena of anal play can be fun, but there may still be some activities that are still off limits.   This is each individual’s prerogative.   Physical preparation might involve doing some inward pelvic floor muscle contractions in the days or hours leading up to a play session.   There are books that show you how to do this, and there are pelvic floor physical therapists you might consult.   Communication with a partner is even more vital at this level as well. You will want to talk beforehand about exactly what both of you want to do before jumping into anything that could make either of you uncomfortable.  

Relaxation and Comfort at the Intermediate Level

  When it comes time for the event, deep relaxation to avoid pain or discomfort are paramount.   You might have some relaxing music playing. You may light some candles.   The proper mood will be different for every couple.   New positions or activities in the realm of anal play should also take into account both partners' physical abilities.   What’s easy for an Olympic-level gymnast, for example, will hardly be possible for someone who is nowhere near that flexible.  

Enhanced Communication with Your Partner

  Communication should take place not only as you’re planning your sexual adventure with your partner, but while it is taking place.   This way, both of you can feel certain you’re enjoying yourselves and nothing unexpected, painful, or uncomfortable is taking place.   You should be sure that you have set up clear boundaries. You may also want to consider having a safe word. This should be regarded as a fallback measure that calls an immediate halt to the action.  

Lubrication for Intermediate Anal Play: Moving Beyond the Basics

  Lubricant is your friend when you start getting into intermediate anal play. Gun Oil is an excellent silicone-based lube, while Ah! Yes OB is an oil-based one that gets lots of rave reviews.   Silicone-based lubes have a sterling reputation for anal intercourse because they have a slick feel and reliably long-lasting properties.   Much like any other product, it can be helpful to read reviews of some top-selling lubes to see which one sounds like it might be ideal for your purposes.  

Best Lubes for Intermediate Play: Silicone vs. Water-Based

  While silicone-based lubes are suitable for bath or shower play in addition to being slick and long lasting, they are also condom-compatible.   As for water-based ones, they are gentle on sensitive skin and are easier to clean.   It may be necessary to try both to see if one or the other is preferable for you and your partner.  

Intermediate Anal Positions: Exploring New Angles for Deeper Pleasure

  At the intermediate level, you might want to explore positions such as the piledriver.   This lets the individual who’s penetrating their partner have advanced control, though the partner on the bottom needs both flexibility and lower back strength.   There is also the rear entry position, which is like spooning, but with one partner on their belly and full penetration taking place.   These allow for stimulation of the erogenous zones, along with enhanced control for both partners.   As you move into more complex positions, you should both notice how the intensity of the experience will be heightened, and the duration should increase as well.  

Top Intermediate Anal Positions

  Side entry and reverse anal cowgirl are also suitable options at the intermediate level.   You may need to experiment a bit with depth and angle based on personal preferences.  

Enhancing Your Anal Play with Intermediate Toys

  Intermediate play can also be marked by use of toys that are considered more for intermediate use, like larger dildos, adjustable vibrators, and medium-sized butt plugs.   You will likely want to select them based on price, user reviews, and recommendations from anyone you know, assuming you are open about discussing your sex life with friends.  

Best Toys for Intermediate Anal Play

  If you’re looking for well-regarded toys, the VeDO vibrating butt plug is a favorite.   Vibrating butt plugs can provide a level of intensity at the intermediate levels of anal play that you might not be ready for as a novice.   The torpedo-shaped b-Vibe Snug Plug is also well regarded.   You might be more into prostate massagers. If so, the We-Vibe Vector+ has an impressive following.  

Mastering the Art of Positioning and Control in Intermediate Anal Play

  Control and mastering positioning can take some doing when you’re first getting into intermediate anal play. Don’t assume that you’ll be great at something the first time. Like anything else, it is often to your benefit to practice.   Deeper pleasure and comfort will likely come when you have attempted several sessions with a partner.   At first, you might focus on rhythm just as much as technique. As time passes, the most pleasurable experiences should become more rote.  

Improving Control: Getting Comfortable with New Positions

  Confidence with this new skill set can take time. Both of you should continue being very clear about what you’re liking the most and what you’re not enjoying so much.  

When to Stop: Respecting Your Limits

  This leads to knowing when to stop. Any time there is pain or discomfort, consider saying your safe word.   You should also both be sure to go slowly, especially when trying something new.  

Listening to Your Body

  Communicating to your partner if something isn’t pleasurable is something that you should practice doing. Some people have a hard time saying no, but it’s vital if you’re going to get into intermediate anal play.  

Conclusion

  The right amount of preparation, communication before, during, and after a session, and making sure you are both relaxed are the main keys to a successful intermediate anal play experience.   Lubrication, proper hygiene, and the use of toys you both like should help as well.   Body-positive play and confidence don’t always come easily, but as you become more comfortable with your partner, they are attainable.   Continuing to educate yourself, understanding what your body likes, and respecting your limits are also necessary.

Get Started with Anal Play: Why You Should Give It a Try

Once upon a time, anal play was one of the biggest taboos in the world of sex, reserved and people were not talking about it.   Today, on the other hand, people are breaking down barriers, exploring the frontiers of their sexuality, and turning old taboos into new ways of experiencing pleasure.   In fact, according to Pornhub, anal videos are one of the most popular content categories.   And from 1960 to 2002, the number of men who’ve engaged in anal sex rose from 9% to 34%, and anal-loving women rose from 28% to 30%.   In other words, anal is now more popular than ever, regardless of one’s gender or sexual orientation.   That said, it’s important to understand that anal play is NOT as simple as conventional sex.   Yes, the motions are more or less the same. But it’s important to take a well-informed and mindful approach to anal, especially if you’re giving it a try for the first time.   Otherwise, you could hurt yourself or your partner, and turn what could be a pleasurable experience into something you’ll never want to talk about again.  

Understanding Your Body: Anal Anatomy and Pleasure

  One thing that’s great about the anus is that it’s an erogenous zone for everyone. Men and women both have buttholes packed with nerve endings, which can provide a whole world of unique and interesting sensations.   But to turn those sensations into pleasure, it’s important to understand your anal anatomy.  

Anal Anatomy: Key Areas to Focus On

  We don’t want to replace your Anatomy 101 class, but here’s a breakdown of the body parts you'll need to focus on.   Butt cheeks - Although they’re not part of the anus, your butt cheeks are sensitive areas that can be teased and pleased right alongside your butthole and other parts.   Perineum and surrounding tissue - The perineum is located between the scrotum or vagina and anus. It’s a highly sensitive area that's also packed with nerve endings waiting to be pleased.   Anal sphincter - This is your actual butt hole. It’s likely the most sensitive area of your anal anatomy. Your sphincter is a muscle that needs to be relaxed for anal penetration to be pleasurable.   Rectum - This is the inside of your butt. There aren’t many nerve endings here. So it’s important not to focus on stimulating the inside of the anus. Yes, you’ll be able to feel it. But most of the pleasurable sensations come from other sensitive areas, not from the rectum itself.   Prostate - For men, the prostate provides insanely pleasurable, even explosive orgasms. Yes, men can ejaculate solely from prostate stimulation. So if you're a guy or you want to give a guy the best orgasm of their life, this is your main target. Women, on the other hand, don’t have prostates.   Whether you’re pleasuring yourself or a partner, you need to know that each of these erogenous zones can be pleasured in different ways.   Remember that anal pleasure feels different for everyone. So how you approach anal play will vary from one person to the next.   For some, stimulating the anus itself and surrounding tissue is all that's needed. But other people might want full-on penetration or prostate massages.  

The Benefits of Anal Stimulation

  Anal play is interesting in the fact that the anus is not actually designed for sexual pleasure.   Yes, there are nerve endings present in your butt. But a lot of the pleasure associated with anal play comes from the mental aspects of the act.   Some people find anal play fun because it’s risque and naughty. Others might find it hot because of the dominance associated with sodomizing another person. And still others might just like it because it’s taboo and they feel like they’re doing something they shouldn’t.   Either way, there are many physical and psychological benefits of anal stimulation, especially for men.   Studies have even shown that men experience far more intense orgasms through prostate stimulation. According to WebMD, penile orgasms cause between 4 to 8 pelvic contractions, whereas prostate orgasms cause an average of 12.  

Getting Ready - Mental and Physical Preparation for Anal Play

  Yes, vaginal and oral sex require the person to be prepared.   But because the anus is not a sexual organ, it’s important to be in the right mindset before inserting anything into your or your partner’s butt.   Below, we explore a handful of tips and tricks for relaxing your mind and body.  

How To Relax And Prepare Yourself Mentally

  The anus is an involuntary muscle. So if the receiver is not relaxed, their sphincter may tighten, causing any type of penetration to be more painful than it has to be.   The mind plays a key role in how the experience will play out. So you want to get yourself excited and interested in the idea of having anal intercourse.   Otherwise, it’s probably not worth trying it.   If you are excited, but also a bit nervous, deep breathing and meditation can help relax your mind and body.  

Communicating with Your Partner

  Communication is extremely important when it comes to any type of sex. Both partners need to be open, ready, and willing for the experience to be pleasurable.   If you’re the one doing the penetrating, you need to be ready to stop the second your partner says they’re not having a good time.   And if you’re the receiver, you need to clearly communicate to your partner what does and doesn’t feel good.   We also encourage you to talk to your partner before intercourse.   Discuss your needs, expectations, fears, and desires. The more open your communication is, the better your experience can be.  

Lubrication: A Key to a Pain-Free Experience

  One important thing to understand about the anus is that it doesn’t lubricate itself. So anal sex without proper lubrication WILL lead to pain, injury, and an overall bad experience.   Let’s take a look at the three different types of lubes to help you choose the right one for anal.

• Water-based lube - Most common lubricant out there. They’re easy to wash off and are safe to use with condoms and silicone sex toys. But they do dry out fast and may become sticky.

 

• Silicone lube - Lasts longer than water-based lubes and they’re water-resistant, making them ideal for anal shower sessions. But they’re usually more expensive and can stain sheets, clothing, and fabrics.

   

• Oil-based lubes - Thick and long-lasting lubricants. The problem is that they’re not safe to use with condoms. They can also stain fabrics, clog your skin pores, and increase your risk of infections.

 

Safe Practices: Avoiding Pain and Discomfort

  Pain, injuries, and infections are just a handful of the risks associated with anal play. And that’s why it’s important to take a serious approach to doing it right.   One of the best ways to minimize the risk of pain and injuries is to ensure that the person being penetrated has full control. If the experience becomes painful or uncomfortable at any point, they should tell their partner to stop immediately.   Or even if they were interested in trying it, but changed their mind, the whole thing is now a NO-GO!   If it doesn’t feel good in anyway, either mentally or physically, it’s not worth doing!   Mental relaxation, being physically clean and prepared, and using plenty of lube are the best ways to minimize pain and discomfort.  

Exploring Toys and Tools for Anal Play Beginners

  With the right attitude, almost anything can be an anal sex toy. But there are 4 main categories of sex toys for anal.   Butt plugs and dilators   Dildos and probes   Anal beads Prostate massagers  

Best Toys for Beginners

  You may have seen porn videos where guys or girls slide thick dildos or dicks into their asses with ease. Well, those are professionals, and you my friend, aren’t there just yet.   Beginners need to choose smaller toys, and then gradually work their way up.   Luckily, you can find butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, and prostate massagers in all sorts of different shapes and sizes.   You’re free to choose whatever type of toys you want.   But we strongly encourage you to start small, and only size up once your body gets used to the experience.  

Anal Sex Positions: Exploring What Works for You

  Just like sex toys, there are plenty of positions to choose from when having anal intercourse.   Missionary, doggystyle, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl are all classic sex positions that can be used for anal. However, they usually require a few small tweaks to provide better access to your or your partner’s backdoor.    

Best Anal Positions for Beginners

  Some positions are better for deeper penetration, whereas others are better for prostate stimulation.   Doggystyle is probably one of the more classic positions used for beginner anal. It gets the receiver’s butt right up there, and allows them to push back for deeper or shallower penetration.   Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are also great because they give the receiver full control over how fast to thrust and how deep to go.   Regardless, not all sex positions are created equal. So you need to find positions that minimize discomfort and give the receiver plenty of control over when to stop.   Remember, having control can make first-time anal experience that much more pleasurable.   So you'll feel more confident right up until the end!  

When to Stop: Knowing Your Limits

  It’s vital to listen to your body and respect your limits. This goes for both the giver and receiver in any sexual situation.   Pain, discomfort, blood… These are all signs that you need to stop immediately.   Discomfort doesn’t necessarily mean you need to stop. In fact, sometimes, a bit of discomfort is why anal-lovers like the experience. But it's still usually a sign that you need to at least take a break and give your body some time to recover, especially if you're new to anal.   Listening to your body helps prevent injuries. It also makes it easier to try again in the future!  

Anal Play For Newbies - How To Have A Great First Experience

  Anal sex can be fun, naughty, and extremely pleasurable. But it’s not as simple as sticking something in your butt and hoping it feels good.   Preparation, communication, and lubrication are the most important aspects of a safe and pleasurable anal experience.   Both partners need to be ready, willing, and excited about the idea. Otherwise, nobody is going to have a good time.   That said, we encourage you to give anal play a try, or at least consider it as something that you might explore in the future.   Anal can help you understand your body, your limits, and how to broaden your sexuality with confidence.

 

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The Queen of Anal Sex

The porn industry has satisfied the curiosities and dispelled many myths surrounding anal sex. However, there’s still a bit of taboo surrounding the act, primarily due to improper education about the sexual act. Pushing anal sex into the mainstream would not have been possible without the pornstars who have delivered stellar performances in the niche over the years. The explosion of the anal niche is thanks to these models, who have attracted millions of viewers with their physical features and stimulating performances. As of now, the best anal pornstars in the industry include Mia Malkova, Abella Danger, Adriana Chechik, Angela White, Asa Akira, Riley Reid, Mandy Muse, Jada Stevens, Remy La Croix, Lena Paul, Tori Black, and Kristina Rose. We’ll take a look at these stars and their achievements so far in the porn industry.  

Most Popular Anal Pornstars

 

     Mia Malkova

Not only is she famous as an adult movie star but also as a content creator in the gaming niche. Her real name is Melissa Ann Hevner, and she was born in Palm Springs, California, on the 1st of July, 1992. She’s 5 feet 7 inches and weighs 57 kg. She has an alluring curvy figure, brown eyes, and blonde hair. She debuted in the adult film industry in 2012 at 20. Her first significant jobs were for Naughty America, Reality Kings, and Brazzers. She stands out for her girl-next-door image. She has collaborated with stars like Riley Reid and been featured in high-production VR scenes. She has won several awards, including the 2014 AVN Award for Best New Starlet. She was married to Danny Mountain. She has an OnlyFans, Instagram (@mia_malkova), X (@MiaMalkova), and Twitch.    

   Abella Danger

Abella Danger is only known by her stage name, keeping her personal life private. However, she was born in Miami, Florida, on the 19th of November, 1995. Aged 30, she’s one of the finest anal pornstars in the industry, known for her curves, tan skin, and dark hair. She weighs 59 kg and is 5 feet 4 inches. Abella entered the industry at 19, working for major brands like Jules Jordan, Brazzers, and Vixen. Her versatile acting skills and energetic performances have earned her the 2016 AVN Best New Starlet award and other XBIZ & AVN plaques. She’s on Instagram as @dangershewrote and on X as @Abella_Danger. She has an OnlyFans account.    

   Adriana Chechik

Her real name is Dezarae Kristiana Charles, and she was born in Pennsylvania, USA, on the 4th of November, 1991. She weighs 52 kg and is 5 feet 2 inches tall. Her attractive features include her petite build, dark hair, and athletic build. She debuted into the porn industry in 2013, receiving attention for her big ass and intense anal scenes. Her flexibility is unmatched, and she exudes energy in all her performances. In 2017, she won the AVN Female Performer of the Year and has multiple other XBIZ and AVN awards. She has an OnlyFans account, an X account at @AdrianaChechik and an Instagram account at @bratnasty69. In 2022, she suffered a severe back injury at TwitchCon but has fully recovered.    

   Angela White

Born in Sydney, Australia on the 4th of March, 1985, she’s had a prolific career in the adult film industry. She’s known for her heavy bust and sexy curves, garnering millions of fans worldwide. She’s 5 feet 3 inches tall, weighs 59 kg, and is known for her sexy brunette features. Her debut was in 2003, featuring on top networks, from Brazzers to Naughty America. She’s known for her passionate performances, which earned her the AVN Female Performer of the Year three times (2018, 2019, 2020). Angela is a highly-educated woman, holding a degree in Gender Studies. She has an OnlyFans and an Instagram account at @theangelawhite and X at @AngelaWhite.    

   Asa Akira

Dominating in the Asian anal category and more, Asa Akira has made her mark in the porn industry, featuring in over 689 films. Her real name is Asa Takigami, and she was born in New York, USA, on the 3rd of January, 1986. She weighs 50 kg and is 5 feet 2 inches tall. Her most alluring features are her dark hair, petite build, and distinct Asian look. She debuted in 2006, working for massive networks like Brazzers, hosting the AVN awards, and publishing a memoir. She won the 2013 AVN Female Performer of the Year and has 30 more AVN awards in different categories. She’s married with a child. Her social pages include an OnlyFans, X at @AsaAkira, and Instagram at @asahole.    

   Riley Reid

Born as Ashley Matthews in Miami, Florida, Riley Reid quickly rose to be one of the most prominent performers in the industry. Born in 1991, she entered the industry in 2010, making her mark as the slim, brunette, girl-next-door who can take a pounding. Her top-tier status does not reflect her playful personality, as she occasionally interacts with her fans. She weighs 50 kg and is 5 feet and 4 inches tall. In 2016, she won the AVN Female Performer of the Year. She’s married to Pasha Petkuns and has a child. Riley has an Only Fans, an Instagram account at @letrileylive and an X account at @rileyreidx3.    

   Mandy Muse

Mandy Muse keeps her life private as her real name and family status are undisclosed. She was born in San Diego, California, on the 18th of October, 1994. It’s unclear when she broke into the industry but her fat ass and enthusiastic performances got her a massive fanbase. She weighs 57 kg and is 5 feet and 3 inches tall. Her curves, dark hair, and Latina descent makes her one of the hottest and most-sought anal film stars on the internet. She has an OnlyFans and can be found on Instagram and Twitter at @mandymusex.  

   Jada Stevens

Known for her slim build, goth-inspired looks, and massive booty, Jada Stevens is another of the most-sought anal films tars in the industry. Her real name is Candace Jackson, and she was born on the 4th of July in 1988. Her scenes are booty-centric, so you know it’s all about hardcore anal porn with her. She has a limited presence on social media, having an OnlyFans and an X account at @itsjadastevens.    

   Remy Lacroix

Remy Lacroix has her real name as Ashley Brianna Cronan, and was formerly a specialty dancer for music festivals before entering the porn industry. She debuted in December 2011, featuring in a gang bang scene for Kink.com. She was born on the 26th of June, 1988 and is known for her stimulating group sex videos. She won several awards between 2013 and 2014, including the 2013 AVN Award for Best New Starlet, the 2014 AVN Award for Best Actress, and the 2014 XRCO Award for Female Performer of the Year. She has no active social media pages.    

Lena Paul And Kristina Rose

 

Both performers have limited data on their personal lives, with Lena’s real name unknown and Kristina Rose’s name as Tracey Quinn Perez. Lena Paul was born on October 12, 1993 and Kristina Rose on April 14, 1984. Lena is 5 feet 3 inches tall and known for her curvy figure. Kristina is 5 feet 1 inch tall and famous for her high-energy performances. Lena has an OnlyFans account and an Instagram at @lenapaulxo.    

    Tori Black

Tori Black, whose real name is Michelle Chapman, is one of the most successful pornstars in the industry. She was born on August 26, 1988, in Washington and started her adult film career at 18. She has starred in majoe parodies, such as Batman XXX, earning her a mention on CNBC as one of the top adult stars. She was also the first to win the AVN Female Performer of the Year Award two years in a row (2010 & 2011). She’s married to Lyndell Anderson and has two children.

For Every Experience Level

As a beginner, intermediate, or expert in analplay, sex toys can easily maximise your pleasure, whether playing solo or with a partner. For beginners especially, you want to play it safe and use high-quality toys that’ll ease you into the act. Our article Top 10 Must-Have Anal Sex Toys highlights and details the best butt plugs, probes, vibrators, beads, massagers and dildos for all levels!  

Top 10 Must-Have Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

   

Soft Silicone Butt Plugs

These are the best for beginners, created from body-safe silicone and designed to be easily inserted to begin your anal escapades. It’s comfortable, pliable, and guaranteed to ease you into bigger toys.   Pros - Easy insertion, smooth, highly flexible, and comfortable Cons - The flexibility may cause a lack of a fuller, firmer sensation for people seeking more stimulation.  

Small Vibrating Butt Plugs

A vibrating, compact plug for better stimulation and pleasure.   Perks - The vibrator gives you enhanced stimulation and helps your muscles relax. Downsides - Cheaper models may have weak vibrations and low-quality batteries.  

Finger Probes For Manual Stimulation

This is a toy you can manually control for better stimulation and precision in hitting your desired spots.   Perks - The manual stimulation allows you to control the pressure and can be great for foreplay. Downsides - It lacks vibrations and additional effects.  

Tapered Anal Trainer Kit (Dilator Set)

If you want to build your tolerance and explore bigger toys in no time, the tapered anal trainer kit is for you.   Pros - Allows for gradual stretching of the butthole with progressing toy sizes. Cons - It requires lots of practice and takes time.  

Jelly beads (Soft Silicone Anal Balls)

Experience progressive pleasure with jelly beads, designed for smooth insertion and heightened stimulation with each pull.   Pros - Easy insertion and progressive increase in size. Cons - Has cheaper models made with porous materials that’ll need extra cleaning.  

Lubricant Applicator

Lube remains the biggest factor in analplay, and this syringe-like device lets you apply it deep inside for a better experience.   Perks - Deep lubrication is achieved. Downsides - It's not a real toy but a useful accessory.  

Slim Metal Butt Plugs

A solid, firm metal plug that gives firm and intense stimulation. Also used for temperature play.   Pros - It can be cooled or warmed for unique sensations. Cons - It’s a compact material that needs careful handling.  

Remote-Controlled Vibrating Plug

A remote-controlled vibrating anal plug that’s perfect for couples.   Pros - Interactive play and hands-free control. Downsides - Some models have Bluetooth issues.  

Double-Ended Beads (Double-Ended Anal Balls)

A multi-use toy with beads of different textures for unique stimulation and sensations.   Perks - It's Perfect for multiple exploration games. Downsodes - Might be difficult to control for a beginner.    

Top 10 Must-Have Anal Sex Toy For Intermediate Level

  Once you’ve mastered the beginners’ toys, you can move on to a higher level of pleasure with the following toys.  

Medium Silicone Butt Plug

This silicone butt plug offers more fullness while giving you the same comfort and flexibility from the small one.   Perks - Firmer stimulation compared to the smaller plug. Downsides - It may require more lubrication to insert and remove.  

Vibrating Prostate Messager

A device designed specifically for massaging the prostate with vibrations, delivering the most intense orgasms.   Perks - The best choice for prostate stimulation. Downsides - Need practice to get the perfect placement.  

Advanced Anal Beads

Flexible beads that give unique stimulations with progression in bead sizes.   Perks - Perfect for edging and progressive intensification as it allows pleasure build-up. Downsides - It may be too long for some users.  

Glass Butt Plus (Glass Anal Plug)

A glass plug that can be cooled and heated to provide pleasure.   Perks - Body-safe, smooth, non-porous, and easy to clean. Downsides - It’s less flexible than silicone, requiring careful handling.  

Rimming Butt Plug (Plug With External Stimulation)

If you love the sensation of rimming, this high-tech anal plug gives you just the same sensation.   Perks - Simulates rimming with its rotating base. Downsides - May be loud and distracting.  

Inflatable Butt Plug

For gaping and stretching of the anus, this inflatable butt plug gives the sensation of stretch and fullness.   Pros - Size can be customised to give different levels of pleasure. Cons - Must be careful to not over-inflate.  

Double-Ended Dildo

"This has two insertable heads which is great for solo play but better for partnered analplay. If you’re interested in exploring different penetration experiences, a high-quality Sex Doll Torso can be the perfect way to experiment with various positions and intensities, allowing for hands-free, immersive pleasure."   Pros - Intimate anal masturbation sessions for couples. Cons - It can be tricky to use for partnered play.  

Remote-Controlled Prostate Massager

This prostate massager is best for hands-free anal masturbation and can be ideal for couples.   Perks - Great for hands-free pleasure. Cons - Bluetooth range may be limited, reducing its flexibility during use.  

Steel-Weighted Butt Plug

Slightly heavy metal buttplugs for fuller and firmer sensations.   Pros - Gives an extra sensation of fullness. Cons - Not suitable for people who prefer lighter toys.  

Pegging Strap-On with Vibration

For couples advancing to penetration, this strap-on harness vibrating dildo helps relax the muscles in the anus for better depth and stimulation.   Perks - Vibrations for wearer and receiver to enhance stimulation. Downsides - Cheaper and lower-quality models may cause discomfort.

 

Top 10 Must-Have Anal Sex Toys For Advanced Level

If you have gotten used to the toys in the intermediate level, then you should maximise your pleasure from analplay with the following toys.  

Large Metal Anal Plug

This is a weighted metal toy for the fullest and most intense sensation. Experienced users derive the utmost pleasure from the enhanced pressure.   Pros - The heaviness adds to your arousal, leading to better orgasms. Cons - Not suitable for starters and requires careful handling.  

Advanced Electro-Stimulation Probe

This probe uses electrical pulses to stimulate nerves to give unique sensations and intense orgasms.   Perks - Wholly different experience compared to traditional toys. Downsides - Needs experience and practice for safe use.  

Huge Inflatable Plug

"This is an inflatable plug that inflates on insertion, allowing fuller sensations and deep stretching. For those seeking the ultimate stretch and fullness experience, pairing inflatable plugs with a realistic Sex Torso can offer an unparalleled level of intensity and control."   Perks - Controlled expansion for maximum stimulation. Downsides - Should be handled with extreme caution.  

Extra long beads

A string of beads increasing in size, providing intense arousal on insertion and removal.   Perks - More intense progressive stimulation. Downsides - It may be overwhelming for the unaccustomed.  

Double Penetration Strap-On

This is the harness that makes vaginal and anal penetration simultaneously possible.   Pros - It explores uncharted levels of pleasure, giving you advanced experiences. Cons - Requires skill and good coordination.  

Large Rimming Vibrating Plug (Vibrating Plug with Advanced)

This toy gives you rimming sensations along with vibrations to stimulate the erogeneous spots in your anus.   Pros - Stimulates rimming with increased power. Cons - It might be too noisy.  

Extreme Prostate Stimulator (Advanced Prostate Stimulator)

For deep prostate stimulation, this is the toy you want, with its pleasurable vibrations and pulsations.   Perks - Deep prostate stimulation. Cons - requires practice and lots of lube.  

XXL Glass Dildo

This huge sex toy gives firmness and fullness with the added perk of temperature play.   Pros - Greater temperature control. Cons - More fragile than silicone and metal.  

Expensable Anal Hooks (BDSM Expendable Anal Hooks)

Ideal for BDSM play, combining anal stimulation and restraint play.   Perks - Perfect for domination play. Cons - It requires great experience, making it suitable for only a few.  

Hollow Butt Plus (Hollow Anal Plug)

This is designed as an open tunnel, allowing for exploration of different sensations   Pros - A whole new level of analplay experience. Cons - Needs extra cleaning and lubrication.   For those seeking premium-quality anal toys and anal Sex Doll, Yeloly provides a carefully selected range of products designed for both comfort and intense pleasure.

Myths, Preparation & Expert Safety Tips

Anal sex has been tagged a taboo for so long that there are waves of myths surrounding the act. Thankfully, health practitioners and the adult entertainment industry have helped prove it as normal, safe, and with better orgasms. Despite this, improper education still fuels some of these myths, which need to be put to rest. If you’re a beginner and are looking for the ultimate guide on what anal sex truly entails, this is the article for you. We’ve researched the most common myths surrounding the act, and we’re bringing you hard facts to dispel them. You also get practical techniques to ease you into the experience and the most important precautions to take before you begin!

The Four Most Common Myths And The Truth Behind Them

Anal sex myths are rampant and dangerous if left unchecked. The truth is not far-fetched with proper research, but we’ll simplify it for everyone who wants to embrace this pleasurable act. Anyone who has tried to venture into analplay has heard at least one of the following myths:  

Myth 1: Anal sex is always painful

Truth: No, it is not always painful. You’ll feel pain when you’re tense and haven’t properly relaxed or prepared. Lack of preparation means not using lubrication, failure to prepare yourself mentally, and forgetting to massage your perineum before easing into penetration. If you find relaxation hard, try breathing exercises and meditation to get you in the mood. Once you’re relaxed and ready, the next thing is to get a high-quality lube to minimize any discomfort.  

Myth 2: It causes permanent damage

Truth: Unless there’s use of excessive force without preparation, no permanent damage will be done to your anus. Just like every muscle in the body, the anus can stretch, accomodate a finger or a huge dildo, and return to normal. However, before you get ahead of yourself, always start small and gradually work up to avoid tears.  

Myth 3: Only certain people engage in anal sex

Truth: It’s believed that gay people are the only ones who engage in this act. On the contrary, all genders and sexual orientations engage in the act. The anus is full of nerve endings that can give mind-blowing orgasms, regardless of the gender. Heterosexuals indulge almost as much as queer people, according to studies.  

Myth 4: You don’t need preparation or lube

Truth: The most important factor to analplay of any form is the use of lube. No matter what the media has portrayed, you need high-quality lube before you begin anything. Get lube and prepare adequately.    

Techniques And Tips To Enhance The Experience

Your favorite pornstars might make it look easy, but it also took them practice with the right techniques and tips to get there. Some of the most important techniques you’ll need for a better experience include the following:  

Always prepare and start slow

The importance of preparation cannot be over-emphasized. An awful experience will begin with you being tense and uncomfortable in the first place. So, you must breathe deeply and relax all your muscles. If you can, meditate. To ease you into it, you can start foreplay by massaging your perineum and other external erogenous spots to get you in the mood. If you’re going solo, lubricate one finger and insert very gently. Start with circular motions that’ll help relax and stretch your sphincter. Then, you can add more fingers or try small toys (with flared bases and tapered shapes). Communication is crucial to having a good experience with a partner. If necessary, use safe words or gestures to get your partner to slow down or stop. Pace yourself and find the most comfortable positions to begin.    

Lubrication - The Key Factor

Lubrication is never too much with anal sex. Apply it to the anus, your fingers, toys, and partner’s penis before penetration. You also want to use water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based lube. Do not use petroleum-based lubrication. To many experts, silicone-based lubricants are the best as they last longer and give a smoother experience. However, it can’t be used with silicone toys.  

Avoid making these mistakes

A common mistake made out of excitement is forceful penetration without preparation. This means no lube, no relaxation, or even cleaning before sex. Doing these can cause injuries and put you at risk of infections. Also, use high-quality lubricants, and do not ever substitute that for saliva. If you’re with a partner, pay attention to their body language.  

The Golden Rules Of Safe Practice

It’s important to take precautions and inculcate safe practices before and during anal sex. Some of the golden rules you should know include the following.  

Always use lube:

While this may sound repetitive at this point, it should be the foremost safety practice. If you have high-quality lubrication, you’ll avoid discomfort, pain, and injuries.  

Hygiene and protection:

It’s important to clean the anus before any form of analplay. Douching is the best method to ensure you’re properly cleaned. Remember to be gentle so you don’t have bruises before you start. Also, use condoms to avoid infections.  

Do not alternate between vaginal and anal without cleaning:

It may look hot in porn videos, but it should never be done in practice. You’ll increase you and your partner’s risk of infection if you alternate without first cleaning properly. If you’re wearing a condom, discard it first and clean yourself before alternating.  

Take it slow and communicate:

Anal sex requires patience and getting used to for it to be pleasurable. Hence, you should take it slow and gradually take it up a notch. Listening to your body is crucial to avoiding pain and injuries.  

Know when to stop:

If you feel any discomfort or pain, you should stop with penetration. An early indication of a bad experience is when your muscles become tense. So, stop when necessary and try again when you’re better prepared.  

Conclusion

With these common myths debunked, you can embrace your fantasies and step into a world of unlimited pleasure. Remember, whether you are a beginner, intermediate, or expert, lube is crucial to having the best experience possible. Be sure to practice proper hygiene for better penetration and reduced risks of infection. Anal sex remains a personal journey and you must approach it with an open mind. If you have a partner involved, be sure to be on the same level of communication before you start analplay.

Introduction to The Anal Guide

The adult entertainment industry has grown tremendously over the last two decades, shedding light on many niches and kinks.

One of the niches that has remained dominant is Anal Sex, ranking high in most-watched porn categories worldwide.

In 2019, Pornhub reported that “anal” was in its top ten most-searched terms globally.

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The History And Culture Of Anal

The 1980s - 1990s saw the rise of adult-content VHS and magazines that started exploring the curiosity/taboo of anal sex. While only a few pornstars performed in the category, it was fast-becoming an interesting aspect to both pornstars and viewers. But the “forbidden” tag was still on the act, and few were bold enough to buy or rent tapes in their name. However, all of that changed with the advent of the Internet in the early 2000s. With better accessibility and anonymity, users could explore this taboo and discover their preferences freely.

Soon, what was stigmatised became the primary content on many adult sites. The niche started extending beyond just penetration to other elaborate actions. Scientific studies vouched for analplay to give better orgasms that clitorial or vaginal stimulation.   The NSFW industry was one of the primary drivers of anal sex, showcasing pleasurable, high-quality photos and videos of the act. Undeniably, pornstars make it look easy and hot when performing, planting ideas that you can find pleasure in, too. However, it’s more than just an idea, as your fantasies can turn into reality with a comprehensive guide such as this.

Dispelling Myths

For a long time, people were uneducated on what anal sex entails and how to get into it. The “immorality” tag that was associated with it discouraged enthusiasts from discovering what was true and false. However, thanks to mainstream adult media and healthcare services, it’s known for a fact that the sexual act can be done safely and pleasurably. Some of the most common myths associated with this are as follows: “Penetration in the anus always hurts.” With the right preparation, there’ll be minimal to no discomfort.   “It can cause permanent damage.” This is highly unlikely if you follow safe practices.   “It’s only for a certain set of people.” Regardless of gender and sexual orientation, it is a preference that can unleash a new level of pleasure for anybody.   “Lubrication is not important.” While it may look that way from adult videos, lubrication is the most important thing in this sexual act.   “It’s unhygenic and poses high risks of infection.” Similar to any form of penetration, it’s important to be clean for a safer and enjoyable experience. Anal sex is clean if both parties follow proper hygenic processes.   “Condoms are not necessary.” Condoms are always advised for any form of sexual penetration.   “Only men love analplay.” Absolutely not. There are nerve endings for maximum pleasure allgenders in the anus.   It is important to dispel these myths, and we will do so in full detail in subsequent articles. We will discuss why these myths originated and the hard facts that have replaced them.

Techniques And Tips To Enhance The Experience

Exploring the sex niche can lead to a lifetime of pleasurable experiences that no other act would match. However, to become an expert as you see with pornstars in your favorite videos, you must adhere to some tips and techniques. These tips are not only for beginners but for intermediates who would like to take it a step further, too. They include the following.   Get Lubes. There can’t be too much lubrication. The type of lubrication you get also matters. We’ll expand better on this and other points in an article discussing these techniques.   Preparation is important. From your hygiene to relaxation methods, you must prepare before you insert anything into your anus. Relaxation has to be both physical and mental.   Choose the right positions. Beginners may be limited to some positions for better pace and control. As you become accustomed to the sensation, you can explore more styles.   Fingerplay and small toys. You don’t just jump into putting things in your butt. Start with massaging your perineum and take it further with fingers and toys.   Communicate with your partner. If you’re doing it with a partner, it’s important to talk through it. If necessary, have a safe word.   Avoid the common mistakes of skipping foreplay, using lubes, forgetting hygiene, etc.  

Safety And Precautions

Enjoying anal sex is always safe practices, including using water or silicone lubricants, proper hygiene before and during penetration, and use of condoms. Most people never know to not switch between the anus and vagina without proper cleaning. All of these precautions will keep you from infections and penetration-related injuries.

Anal In The NSFW Industry

The contributions of the porn industry in establishing the category cannot be over-emphasized. Today, there are dozens of sub-categories, including toyfucking, masturbation, rimming, pegging, gaping, gangbang, and double penetration. Pornstars like Asa Akira, Riley Reid, Abella Danger, Mia Malkova, and Adriana Chechik have especially been pivotal to the genre. They inspired millions of amateur videos on the internet showing real people having anal sex and deriving maximum pleasure from it.

Games And Accessories

Some of the accessories to enhance your analplay experience include the following. Plugs and dilators: Silicone, metal, glass, and metal plugs.   Toys: Dildos.   Vibrators: remote-controlled and dual-stimulation vibrators.   Beads and hooks.   Pegging harnesses and strap-ons.   Prostate massagers.

Conclusion

Gone are the days of stigmas and taboos being attached to analplay. It’s now a well-established sexual act that’s giving people more pleasure than vaginal sex. With safe practices and the right toys, beginners can immerse themselves in a life-changing sexual experience. You definitely don’t want to miss our upcoming articles on safety, pleasure, and accessories!